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Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Sparks Debate: Urges Men to Set Standards, Stop Marrying “Liability” Women
Popular Nigerian relationship coach and lead pastor of David’s Christian Centre, Kingsley Okonkwo, has ignited widespread discussion on social media after calling on men to raise their expectations in marriage and avoid partners he described as “liabilities.”
In a series of posts shared on his official X account (@kingsleypst) on Sunday, March 15, 2026, Okonkwo argued that many men now view marriage as a financial burden rather than a mutual partnership, largely due to a pattern of marrying women who contribute little economically.
“Men it’s high time we start having standards as well, you guys are too used to women that are liabilities that’s why less and less men desire marriage, they see it as a burden,” he wrote.
He further advised: “Men set standards like you won’t marry broke women too, that you want a partner and not a dependent, maybe it will make more women work and not see marriage and dating as a poverty alleviation scheme.”
Okonkwo criticised what he called an “unbiblical” and “damaging” societal trend where women openly demand wealthy partners while men face pressure to provide without reciprocity. “Women brazenly insist on rich men I think we and also insist on working women that will contribute,” he added.
The pastor also addressed men who deliberately choose financially vulnerable women to maintain control, describing the behaviour as rooted in insecurity. “Yes, I know some of you men like the needy, hungry and dependent women because it boosts your ego and helps you control women, but it’s doing more harm than good. All humans have value and abilities; let them develop it,” he cautioned.
The remarks quickly spread across platforms, amplified by reposts from accounts such as Instablog9ja, YabaLeftOnline, PM News Nigeria, and various celebrity gist pages. Reactions have been sharply divided: supporters praised Okonkwo for promoting balanced, mutual partnerships and accountability, while critics accused him of reducing marriage to finances, undermining traditional gender roles, and overlooking non-monetary contributions like homemaking, emotional support, and child-rearing.
Some commenters argued that societal undervaluation of women’s domestic labour already places an unfair burden on them, while others agreed that modern economic realities require both partners to contribute financially.
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Federal High Court removes Gov. Uzodinma as APC senatorial candidate for Imo West
The Federal High Court in Abuja has ordered Imo State Governor, Hope Uzodinma, to immediately stop parading himself as the All Progressives Congress (APC) candidate for the Imo West Senatorial District election scheduled for January 16, 2027.
Justice Obiora Egwuatu issued the order on Thursday after ruling that Uzodinma did not win the APC senatorial primary election conducted on May 18 and monitored by the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC).
The ruling represents a significant development in the contest for the APC ticket ahead of the 2027 senatorial election.
The court’s directive requires Uzodinma to cease presenting himself as the party’s candidate for the Imo West Senatorial District seat, pending the implications of the court’s decision.
The development is expected to generate further political reactions within the APC in Imo State as preparations intensify for the 2027 general elections.
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Usman Nuhu, AKA Ogbegbe, Appears in Court Over Alleged Killing of Oghenemine
Usman Nuhu, popularly known as Ogbegbe, has appeared in court in Asaba, Delta State, to face charges over the alleged killing of Oghenemine, who reportedly went to collect a waybill at Effurun Roundabout.
During the court proceedings, Ogbegbe, who appeared visibly lean and shaky, denied killing Oghenemine. He reportedly told the court that he used a stone near the deceased to apply pressure on his body so he would confess. He also claimed that he was beaten with floor tiles at the Ekpan Police Station.
The court reportedly reminded him that the statements he was making were under oath.
The second defendant, who was charged alongside Ogbegbe, also told the court that the police forced him to admit that he was present when Oghenemine was allegedly killed. He maintained that he was not at the scene when the incident occurred.
The court ordered that Ogbegbe be remanded in prison, while the second to fifth defendants were granted bail.
The other defendants are Onoloko Dauroupamo, Okoh Kelechi, Goodluck Kingsley and Omonigho Ahweyevu.
The case was adjourned until November 17, 2026, for further proceedings.
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Rt. Hon. Mandela Obasi, a grassroot leader and stunch member of Labour party; bids farewell to Late Chief Maxwell Enny Aruh.
The former Deputy Speaker of the Abia State 7th House of Assembly, and the representative of Ohafia North State Constituency at the current 8th House, Rt. Hon. Mandela Obasi, has once again shown his love for his people, friends and constituents, as he identifies with the family of Late Chief Maxwell Enny Aruh, who was laid to rest yesterday, 1st October 2026 in his hometown, Abiriba.
The presence of the House member during the wake-keep on 30th September, turned the event to a mini carnival as the youths of Abiriba troopped out from all corners of Abiriba community that night to be with their leader who is always at home with his people and to identify with one of their leaders Chief John Okiyi Kalu, whose Uncle was being buried.
During a condolence visit to the former Commissioner for Trade and Investment in his country home, the House member and Mayor of Ohafia LGA, Chief Eleanya Ojuu, took time to console and pray for the entire family.
In his speech, Mandela expressed his sympathy over the demise of Chief Maxwell, who he described as a perfect gentleman and a true son of Abiriba Kingdom. He enjoined the family to carry on with his legacies, and prayed God to give them the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.
Responding on behalf of the family, the former Commissioner for Trade and Investment, Chief John Okiyi Kalu, thanked the house member for finding time to be with the family in their time of grief all through the wake keep and the funeral service proper. He described him as a trusted representative of the people who stands with his people at all times. Furthermore, he thanked the Mayor of Ohafia LGA, Chief Eleanya Ojuu, who coincidentally is of same age grade with him, for finding time to come and for his prayers.
The house member was accompanied by some leaders and members of Labour party, his legislative aide, and some of his children.
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